Sunday, June 13, 2010

好像少了点什么。。

好像少了点什么。。

前段时间,每天下班回家后以及周末,都窝在家里煲电视剧,先是《大女当嫁》,然后是《TRUE BLOOD》season one & two,
煲完了,这个周末突然闲了下来,感觉好像少了点什么。。突然觉得有点迷茫,不懂自己可以做什么了。。

其实,迷茫的,何止是不懂该煲下一部什么电视剧呢!!!

我真那么喜欢煲剧吗?
不是的!

其实我之所以喜欢煲剧,是因为,煲剧不用约人,
现今忙碌的城市生活,老朋友、老同学们都各有各忙,
想约大家出来聚聚真的不容易,
与其这样,倒不如自己找乐子,自己打发时间!

写到这里,我突然想起这么一句话:两个人拍拖,只是互相找一个长期固定的消磨时间的搭档而已。
现在看来,还真挺有道理的!呵呵。。

昨天跟一个旧同事聊了两句,他说我好像变老成了,因为我对于新工作的描述很平淡,一点都不像当年他认识的我,
可是,不能怪我呀。。这是社会的错!我只是对社会现象看开了,不再抱有幻想而已。。

一个跟我“臭味相投”的好友,跟我的“境况”很相似,大家都在毕业4年内经历了人生中的第一次跳槽,
可是,对于新工作,仍然觉得未如理想,大家都知道这不是我们想要的,但是,我们究竟想要什么?我们又说不出来。。
这难道是我们这类毕业4-5年的人的通病吗?

当我无助的时候,第一时间想到的,就是旅游,
想了想,我好像很久没去旅游了吧?
噢。。好像不是哦,4月初不是才去过一次武汉和湖南吗?
可是,为什么我觉得那是那么地遥远呢?
我想念云南了,我想念台湾了,我想念新加坡了。。。
我想念旅游的感觉了,我想我真的该去一趟长途旅行了!!!

A Real Boyfriend

A Real Boyfriend


一位美国朋友在facebook上发表的,觉得真的太棒了,跟大家分享一下啦:

 

i don't care if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend right now.... I dont care if you are a guy or a woman or Michael Jackson..... just read this, it will make a difference.

if only everyone could see this and understand it....

When she stares at your mouth
[ Kiss her ]

When she pushes you or hits you like a dumb ass cuz she thinks shes stronger than you
[ Grab her and dont let go ]

When she starts cursing at you tryin to act all tuff
[ Kiss her and tell her you love her ]

When she's quiet
[ Ask her whats wrong ]

When she ignores you
[ Give her your attention ]

When she pulls away
[ Pull her back ]

When you see her at her worst
[ Tell her she's beautiful ]

When you see her start cryin
[ Just hold her and dont say a word]

When you see her walking
[ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ]

When she's scared
[ Protect her ]

When she steals your favorite sweatshirt
[ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night ]

When she teases you
[ Tease her back and make her laugh ]


When she doesn't answer for a long time
[ Reassure her that everything is okay ]

When she looks at you with doubt
[ Back yourself up ]

When she says that she likes you
[ She really does more than you can understand]

When she grabs at your hands
[ Hold her's and play with her fingers ]

When she bumps into you;
[ bump into her back and make her laugh ]

When she tells you a secret
[ keep it safe and untold ]

When she looks at you in your eyes
[ dont look away until she does ]

When she says it's over.
[ she still wants you to be hers ]

When she reposts this bulletin
[ She wants you to read it ]

- Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything
- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go
- When she says she's ok dont believe it, talk with her because 10 yrs later she'll remember you
- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her
- Treat her like she's all that matters to you
- Stay up all night with her when shes sick
- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it's stupid
- Give her the world
- Let her wear your clothes
- When she's bored and sad, hang out with her
- Let her know she's important!
- DON'T TALK ABOUT OTHER GIRLS AROUND HER!
- Kiss her in the pouring rain
- When she runs up to you crying, ask her "Whose ass am I kicking baby?"

 

不知道哪个幸运的女孩能找到这样的男朋友呢?